When your husband takes the girls to Universal while you’re working, and he sends you this. ALL Piper has been asking for was a wand! The look on her face shows she was beyond excited & so is Sophia with her Dobby!
Layla knows what she's doing! Got two £10 notes from Daddy's wallet, one for me and one for her. We are off to town for a cup of tea and cake and to buy lipgloss and nailpolish! #stepdaughter #makesmesmile #prettygirlie #stepmum #stepmom #daddysgirl #daddysgirls
I’ve been reading and learning a lot more about the effects of our childhood! Trauma, wounds, neglect from our initial caregivers while residing in an environment that doesn’t meet a child’s wants and needs. We are in an era where connection and communication isn’t at the fore. It’s treated (literally ) AS IF true intimacy and “love” (in authenticity ) can simply be shopped online and shipped from your local store. For some it’s at the back and for tons, such realms never made it upon the “bus.” Abandonment, Avoidance, Addiction in excess, all scathing “us.” Then “growing up” with lack thereof Acknowledgement, Affirmation and Appreciation... not the definition of being “united” as a nation. I urge all parents to “do your work” in the words of #iyanlavanzant “Work” has a connotation associated with making a living, career or job to provide monetary status in order to leave “a better life” for the seeds blossoming under the foundation. It should be an interdependent compartment that falls under the umbrella of “childcare” but “work” starts the day that you bring a vulnerable life into this world. “Work” is before and after you “clock in and clock out.” Like rehab it’s an everlasting “check-in.” Don’t just push them off to “caregivers” and “cartoons,” Tune in to your children! Tend to your seeds! More households producing healthy, capable, functional, stable, intact, human beings is what we need. It’s less about Institutions, more about the internal roots, the Individuals we bring in and breed.
WHAAT!!? WHAT IS THIS 😱😰